"As an introvert who has a tendency towards hyper-independence and over-achievement, it was easy for me to distract myself with other goals and hope that romantic relationship and marriage would just fall into my lap. After several years of a slow and unfulfilling dating life (compounded by the pandemic), I realized I needed to change how I was approaching dating and started working with Amy in Voxer, reading the recommended books, and applying the principles she teaches both in the real world and on the apps. Applying these principles wasn't always easy (and some days it's still challenging), but working with Amy to learn and apply these principles has profoundly affected not only my dating life but my relationship and understanding of myself. I have found myself able to detach much easier, understand parts of myself that when left unchecked can lead to self-sabotage in romantic relationships, and be kinder to myself. I feel more in touch with my personal power and feel more equipped to navigate modern dating while effectively communicating my standards to men I'm dating. Sometimes it feels like many people are not looking for serious commitment or marriage anymore, but I know that through dating consciously with these principles, I am already creating a strong foundation for an emotionally intimate and fulfilling marriage -- even if it takes a little longer."