Why I Teach About Relationships and Marriage

• As a single person, I was thriving creatively and personally suffering from what I call “culture capture”.

• I considered myself an empowered, liberal, feminist, and easily related “man to man” with guys in the workplace, but I couldn’t be vulnerable outside the context of work or friendship. I was blonde and still fit in my prom dress, but I barely got past first dates. I was activating my inner masculine energy in all areas of life. I used control disguised as “choice” (the culture reinforces this).

• I pushed men away, settled for crumbs, and confused longing with real connection. I had to learn how to surrender, trust God, and develop the stamina to receive without fear. I restored patience, trust, and emotional maturity. I restored respect for men and family, and became someone truly worth marrying. I began trusting there was someone for me, while also accepting my path may not include marriage - making friends with myself and the paradox.

• Meeting Dr. Pat Allen radically changed my life. Her effective research has influenced my work. She helped me create new habits with cognitive behavioral shifts. I have proven her principles in my own marriage, and enhanced them with further discovery through research and experience.

I believe that many lonely single women and struggling spouses are simply a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts. I teach dating and relating in a way that “sands down” egoic and dim character traits, allowing for feminine flow and respect for masculine leadership.

The skills and tools I teach to help single women thrive and find love are also necessary within the context of marriage. I use them daily!

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