Why I Teach About Relationships and Marriage

• As a single person, I was thriving creatively and personally suffering from what I call “culture capture”.

• I considered myself an empowered, liberal, feminist, and easily related “man to man” with guys in the workplace, but I couldn’t be vulnerable outside the context of work or friendship. I was blonde and still fit in my prom dress, but I barely ever went on dates. I was activating my competitive inner masculine energy, which repels goodhearted masculine leaders and baffles women who are matching the egoic, “edgy” messages they constantly see in media - unaware that it leads to isolation, not collaboration.

• I had to learn how to trust God, surrender, and develop the stamina to receive without fear. I restored patience, trust, and emotional maturity. I restored respect for men and family, and became someone truly worth marrying.

• Meeting Dr. Pat Allen radically changed my life. Her effective research has influenced my work and inspired my book.

Lonely single women are often a few small changes away from massive, prosperous shifts. I teach women to date without emotional burdens that arrive from premature sex, substance use, and initiating contact with a man. Dating with high standards in a simple way “sands down” maladjustments in the psyche and removes obstacles, allowing for feminine flow and respect for masculine leadership. This makes way for simple things.

If you flirt, you’ll date and if you date, you’ll marry.